Blooming This Week at the Home of Ron and Lois Porter…June 14, 2007

Last year at this time Ron and I were working in the annual bed by the front door when Ron suggested I write about our garden. For many years we have had an open house at Christmas time where friends and family gather, eat, and sing Christmas carols. At that time our gardens have been under a blanket of snow, or on many occasions the land has been a dreary brown still waiting for that Christmas card look. We tell people about our gardens, but there isn’t really anything to see at that time. This letter is a way of sharing our garden and an open invitation to see it in the season it looks the best.

 

We live on five acres in Rogers because it had been Ron’s dream to have a hobby farm, and my dream to live where ever he was with room to roam. I wasn’t enthused about farm animals, but space and a “view for my soul” was my desire. I wanted to be able to walk my yard in pajamas and enjoy the feeling of being in our own world. I wanted a place that I could be free to explore and be steps away from my own woods and fields.

 

We had chickens for awhile, but they have become part of the circle of life courtesy of a very industrious fox that roamed our backyard. Our poodle, Michael Henry is our only farm animal, and I doubt that he thinks he is anything but our daughter Veronica’s little brother. He spends his days wearing baby clothes, being pushed in a stroller, and riding Veronica’s big wheel left over from her toddler days.

 

A major part of the joy of being here is enjoying the garden and land with others. Since school is finally over. Thank you God for the break, and the job to break from, I can spend my days working in the garden. I’m not going to school this summer, and after about a 10 minute discussion with myself, I decided not to teach or get a summer job. We still hope that people will just drop by.

 

Last year I also discovered the joys of photography. In order to make my letter more attractive I began taking pictures of the garden to better illustrate my words. While striving to get the best shots of my garden, I learned how important it was to walk the garden daily in order to not miss some perfectly splendid displays of color, texture and form. Perennial gardens change daily. I now realize how much I missed the year before. For just a few precious days I got to enjoy our new tulip bulbs we planted last fall. Unfortunately, the hyacinths and the frittalaria never appeared. I didn’t miss them until I looked back at my journal and realized they had never come up. I may try more tulips next year; and maybe hyacinths once again.

 

Recently, we had a lone vibrant orange bearded iris bloom on the back side of the Entrance Garden. I have a purple and a red columbine blooming in the back on the lower garage tier tucked in a corner. I don’t remember them from last year. Earlier this spring, a green mound that last summer I figured must be something pretty turned out to be violets. It was covered with delicate purple flowers with yellow accents. It was because of this letter that I got out to my garden earlier this year, even going out after school.   Most times I arrive home after work in a near catatonic state and just want to zone out in front of HGTV for the evening and fall asleep by 7:30.

 

In February this year I began geranium seeds inside. In mid-April I seeded flat trays of potting soil, with sunflowers, zinnias, purple salvia and African daisies. I have had very little success with seeds over the years. I have used grow lights and had leggy spindly plants that never looked as good as the nursery grown plants. I have waited all summer for a bloom on geranium seeds begun in January. I have spent countless hours in the summer, trying to weed grasses and other weeds from marigolds seeded thickly around a vegetable garden. Seeds never seem to save me time or money. In fact, they seem to require more of both.

Mrs. Daniels, my mother’s neighbor has had great luck with seeds. Last summer, she told me she scatters seeds in pots in potting soil. When the seedlings are large enough she transplants them where she wants them to grow. Potting soil has no weed seeds. In mid-April, she just lets the rain and sun grow the plants like everything else is growing. The seeds will grow when it is time for them to come up.

 

Except for the geraniums, which I did start indoors, all the other seeds were directly seeded in flats with drainage holes filled with potting soil. Everything came up beautifully. I chose plants that should bloom in late July, August and September. Last year, we didn’t have the color I wanted toward the end of the season. My neighbor had a beautiful bed of zinnias that were outstanding in August, so I promised myself I would seed them. I have wanted to do a sunflower house for Veronica for many years, and I was able to transplant the seedlings without having to try to identify what was a sunflower. Ron prepared the soil for my bed by killing everything that was growing there and then tilling the area. Memorial Day the seedlings went in. I am hoeing the area about every other day to get rid of the crabgrass and other weed seedlings that have germinated. It is much easier to do since the sunflowers are so much bigger. Each time I have hoed, there are fewer and fewer weeds. The zinnias are in different spots that I chose for the ease of planting and for their future bright spots of color.

 

We have also planted a vegetable garden.  We bought just a few plants at the pre-season sale at Malmberg’s outlet in Rogers. My plan this year is to have a vegetable garden that looks pretty. We tried to choose things we actually eat, but I know I won’t be touching those hot peppers and I’m good for only one or two meals of eggplant. The glossy purplish- black fruit is preceded by a lovely light lavender flower that is beautiful. I find that reason enough to include them in this year’s garden display. The red tomatoes are stunning tucked into the wire cages. Pumpkin flowers and their rambling vines remind me of a set for Cinderella. We put in small red and yellow watermelon because they were delicious last year. It was our first year we were able to harvest them before the season ended. I seeded corn among the large pumpkins because I teach about interplanting by the ancient Mayans to my sixth grade social studies classes. This is supposed to be an excellent way to grow more food in a limited space. The big pumpkins will be for pies and decorations. I hope to be able to eat my own corn and then use the stalks for fall décor. In addition, a tiny decorative pumpkin plant is planted away from the large ones to provide more decorative accents inside.

 

We have already had several meals featuring asparagus, which comes up every year, and our front door strawberries were an early June treat. I am not expecting to not have to buy any fresh produce over the summer, but I’d like to be able to eat some of all of what we planted and enjoy the view provided by the plants. In my mind I see our vegetable patch looking like the McGregor farm from Peter Rabbit.

                                                                       

I used to stress over the imperfections and untidiness of our garden beds. It seemed that I had no hope of coming close to what I see in my head, in some other gardener’s yard, or at the Minnesota Arboretum. I know that there is no “done” in gardening. There is always a weed to pull and a bloom to dead head.  There is a point where the work of gardening seems overwhelming, and the joy of it escapes. I think that point is all about my perspective. When I get there depends on how much I am willing to let go, how much I am willing to allow myself to enjoy what I have, and not be concerned or distressed by what isn’t done or perfect. Just “looking” at perfection would not be satisfying any way. I know I need to do both. I need to work it, but I also must give myself the grace to walk away and enjoy what is there without stressing about what I haven’t done.

 

A good friend of mine and I were talking recently. She and I both agreed that when we garden we learn something of how God wants us to live. We learn about patience, we learn about diligence, and we learn about how abundantly we are blessed.

 

 A most important lesson I have learned is that moments are precious. All of our crabapple, cherry and the Mother’s Day tree blooms are just memories. Our Miss Kim, French, Dwarf Korean and Miss Canada lilacs are all gone. They were stunning this year. They were so fragrant and beautiful. They bloomed in succession and we had almost a month of continuous flowers. Pinks, shades of purples and white flowers were everywhere. Now, the Japanese lilac tree, and the baby catalpa with its magnolia like white flowers are presently blooming in the yard. Yellow foxglove and purple Siberian iris are just in the middle of their bloom. A few varieties of bearded irises are still putting on a show but are beginning to end.

 

Gold sedum flowers have begun along with the yellow evening primrose which covers half of the upper tier behind the garage. I am always a little sad when each plant reaches the end of its bloom, but there is always something just as and even more beautiful which begins after the one I loved is gone. If they all came at once and stayed for the entire season, I would not be able to appreciate the ever changing view. It would become like wallpaper, and I would cease to see it, a background that disappears from conscious appreciation.

 

As we did last year, we invite you to come and visit. I keep sweet tea and ice cold lemonade on hand. You are welcome to walk around, sit on one of the benches we have around the property, and on a hot steamy day a dip in the river can be really fun. We are planning to camp out in the back this year, and if you are game, you are welcome to put up a tent and join us. We are hoping to host picnics on Sunday’s after church and are intending on keeping Sunday afternoons for garden walks and fellowship.

Any time is fine. If you call ahead, I probably could manage to be relatively clean and free of serious mud and dirt. I will also provide directions for those of you who need them.

 You are always welcome,

Lois

 

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